• 525 INTENSIVE

    "Husbands, love your wives as Christ loved the church..."

    Ephesians 5:25

  • Consider this...

    The greatest command given to you, as a husband, is found in Ephesians 5:25. There God tells you to, "... love [your wife] as Christ loved the church..."

    The immediate question is, "how do I accomplish this?"

    For far too long, we have been told this means to, "do more around the house", be a "servant leader," "make sure your wife is always pleased" (this is the old line of, "happy wife, happy life"), and "make sure she is on board before you make any decision."

    All of this without ever clarifying what are a husband's roles and responsibilities.

    Because of this lack of clarity, many men try to do what they are told, but there is a gnawing feeling that something is off, and lacking. There is a sense of disconnect. That something is amiss, but you can't quite put your finger on it.

    What makes matters worse, is after you have done all the things you're told, you look up and that sweet woman, who was smitten by you, seems distant.

    The fire that once roared are smoking embers, she has gotten cold.

    The everyday, warm interactions between you and your wife has turned into consistently awkward moments.

    Sexual intimacy is stagnant, and lacks passion.

    And you are left uncertian of what to do next.

    Is this the marriage you desire?

    Is this what you envisioned your married life to resemble?

    Is this the glorious picture of Christ and the church that you are called to paint with your marriage?

    Brother, there is a better way! There is a biblical way!

    God has spoken and He has not left us in the dark about who we are, and how we are supposed to show up as husbands!

    The 525 Intensive examines what God says our calling is as husbands, and applies what He says with strength, love, courage, joy and wisdom.

    Do you want to grow in godly confidence, and leadership?

    Do you desire your wife's respect and admiration?

    Do you want better emotional and sexual intimacy?

    Do you desire to be more like Jesus?

    If the answer is, "yes" to any of these questions, then the 525 Intensive was created to serve you!

  • The 525 Intensive takes the threefold office of Christ as King, Prophet, and Priest, and applies it to husbands

    KING

    As the King, you are the head of your wife and have the authority to lead her. You set the course, and assume all responsibility for her, and your marriage. Here, there is no blameshifting, or excuse-making. Under no circumstance are you to complain about challenges, hardships or trials. Instead, you lead with faith, strength, gentleness and joy.

    PROPHET

    As the Prophet, you bring the word of God to bear on your wife’s soul on any and every occasion (in season and out of season). You understand that the contours of life are governed by God's word. You know that "man does not live by bread alone..." (Matthew 4:4). Therefore, you seek to wisely, lovingly, and courageously speak the word of God to your wife.

    PRIEST

    As the Priest, you intercede with and for your wife. Because of you, her name is frequently mentioned at the throne of grace. You do not take the approach of, “when there’s nothing you can do, you ought to pray.” Rather, you understand that prayer is primary, not an after thought! As the Priest, you love your wife deeply and seek to serve and sacrifice for her good.

  • ABOUT DE'JUAN

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    De'Juan offers discipleship, consulting, and prayer for you, your wife and children.

    De'Juan understands what's at stake! He knows the costs are high! He knows and recognizes the weight of being a husband and father!

    He has spent countless hours renewing his mind and transforming his life in order to be the husband and father Christ has called him to be.

    He believes, "Being a husband is a great and noble calling, to which we should give ourselves to with earnest. God has entrusted us with the care of one of His daughters! And if He has blessed us with children, then He has entrusted to us arrows to be trained and launched; the stewardship could not be greater! Because of this, we must constantly strive for Christ-likeness. The work is never done, but therein lies the glory! It means no matter where we are, we can always grow and be conformed to Christ! There are generational conquences for how we live as husbands and fathers. Failure, here, is not an option!"

    De'Juan has discipled many men, and looks forward to having the opportunity to disciple you!

    By the grace of God, he is determined to help as many husbands as possible to establish biblical households for the sake of future generations and the glory of God!

    He is married to his beautiful wife, Ashley, and together they have eight children.

  • HOW DE'JUAN CAN HELP YOU

    ONE HOUR INTENSIVE

    1 hour

    $150

    Schedule a one hour phone or video call with De'Juan.

    During the call you will be able to address personal concerns, ask questions about your marital situation, receive prayer, and practical help.

    YOU MAY ONLY SELECT THIS OPTION TWICE

    525 INTENSIVE

    COURSE

    10 Weeks

    $700

    Only for the first 10 applicants!
    Payment options available
    (regular price $2,250)

    This course includes:

    • 8 recorded audio lessons, with corresponding PDF Worksheet(s).

    • 10 weekly one hour phone or video calls (video calls are recorded and sent to you immediately following each meeting). The last two sessions are "follow up and follow through" meetings; they are not planned lessons.

    • Unlimited text access during participation in the course.

    525 INTENSIVE

    PREMIUM

    COURSE

    6 months

    $2,500

    Only for the first 10 applicants!
    Payment options available
    (regular price $5,000)

    This course includes:

    • 8 recorded audio lessons, with corresponding PDF Worksheet(s).
    • 24 weekly one hour phone or video calls (video calls are recorded and sent to you immediately following each meeting).
    • Unlimited text access during participation in the course.
    • 6 additional monthly lessons covering a variety of topics concerning faith, life, and manhood.
    • Selected Book Studies (books are determined by your situation).
    • 3 one hour couple sessions with my wife and I (these calls are reserved for after the first 8 weeks. Yes, your wife can join the calls).
    • Potential opportunities to do combined calls with other brothers doing the 525 Intensive Premium (available after the first 8 weeks).
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    Testimonial

    "I started working with De'Juan and my entire paradigm has begun to shift. Instead of looking to my wife for affirmation, affection, and approval, I began to realize and learn what it looks like to be secure in my identity in Christ.

    Once De'Juan helped me with this paradigm shift, my entire approach to my marriage changed. I have more joy, more love for my bride, more excitement to love her as Christ loved the church, a better understanding of what that even means, and I am excited for the future my bride and I will have together.

    Many pastors are willing to tell a man he needs more gravitas, or needs to "man up", but De'Juan has the ability to teach you what that looks like, and he does this with gentle honesty and by pointing you to Christ, your King. I would highly recommend any man who is struggling in their marriage to reach out to De'Juan for help. You won't regret it."

    Brian C.

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